This is a video I found on Youtube.com by Curiousinventor.com.
I thought it pretty good since he covers a lot of the important points in soldering. You can apply these same procedures in working with your equipment. This page will definitely grow in information and more videos as soon as I find the time.
I will also include desoldering information since this is just as important. Also knowing what equipment to go with can save you money in the long run as well as aggravation.
In the meantime enjoy this video: